Do Actions Always Speak Louder Than Words?
*Sorry if I’m rambling…but it’s been on my mind and I’ve had some alcohol in my system.*
We all know the saying “actions speak louder that words”. And I’ve been in relationships where I waited for the actions to catch up to the words, yet the words just happened to be nothing but words and the actions never led me to believe otherwise. Now the tables have turned. While actions are showing me one thing, the words have yet to be said. And to be honest, no words have been said. I’m starting to believe there has to be some type of balance. A balance between the actions that are being done and the words that are or need to be said. I’m not asking for the three little words, but more of an understanding of one’s feelings. How is it that you have someone by your side but at times, you still feel alone?
Please let me know if I’m talking nonsense.
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Your on point Kris! Its even worse when one set of actions and words say one thing and the you get another set of actions and words that say the complete opposite (i.e. said person moves crosscountry to live with you and start over but you then find out shortly after they are still talking to the recent ex who is refferring to him as husband (and he tries to talk around why he should still talk to her)) So ya- I get what you mean.